RAPE, A SERIOUS CRIME MAKES ME ASK JUST A FEW THOUSAND QUESTIONS.

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1. What Is The Motive Behind A Rape? 
2. What Does The Culprit Get Out Of The Barbaric Act? 
3. What Is A Psychology Of A Rapist? 
4. Is It A Power Play? 
5. Is It A Way To Vent Out Frustration And Anger? 
6. Asserting Control And Dominance Over A Physically Weaker Being, 
7. What Has ‘He, A Man’ Been Trying To Prove Over Years? 
8. What Is A Rapist’s Childhood Like? 
9. What Was The Role Of A Woman In His Life? 
10. How Was/Is His Wife, Sister, Daughter Like? 
11. Did He Hate Women Since His Growing Years So Much That He Tried To Take Revenge On Them Through Raping Every Other Woman? 
12. What Triggers Committing Of A Rape?

All I Understand Is That It Is The WEAK And The INSECURE WHO TRIES TO DOMINATE AND HUNGERS FOR POWER, 

It Is The WEAK Who Is Not At PEACE. 
So, 
How Can This Weaker Being Suppress An Actually Strong Person Who Has No Ill-Intentions? 

There Is Certainly NO PLEASURE In Something Like Rape. 

Unless Your Partner Is Happy How Can You Derive Happiness Or Pleasure Out Of That Physical Intimacy? 

Can REHABILITATION Help These Mentally Sick Beings? 

Can Getting Them SPIRITUALLY-INCLINED Help Them? 

Can Any Baba, Guru Or God Help Them TRANSFORM? 

Have These Rapists Ever Said A PRAYER? 

Can These ANIMALS Be TRANSFORMED Into Being HUMAN? 

Can This HUMILIATING BEHAVIOUR On Their Part Be Pardoned? 

Why Do We Not Punish Them TWICE AS BRUTALLY So As To Set The Right Example? 

‘KSHAMA’, OR EXCUSING THEM IS A CRIME. 

Letting Them ROAM FREELY IS A CRIME, 
Which Brings As Much DISGUST As The Crime Itself.

Every Evening When Your CONCERNED PARENTS Ask You To GET BACK HOME BEFORE DARK, 

You Know It’s A Mind Boggling. 

You RETALIATE But You Know THEY ARE RIGHT. 

You Curse Being Born In A Country Which Is Hypocrite About Respecting Women. 

Every Time You Walk On The Street, 

You Have To BE ALERT Of Who’s Walking 
NEXT To You, 
BEHIND You, 
AHEAD Of You, 

What If A Car Stops And Pulls You In It, 

What If Someone Brushes Past You Inappropriately In A Crowded Public Transport, 

What If, 
What If, 
What If.. 
Now That ‘What If’ Day In And Day Out Is A Mind .

Recently When I Was Traveling In The Women’s Compartment Of The Train. 

A Handbag Of A Woman Standing Right Behind Me Touched Me. 
I Almost Turned Back In Fury. 

Such Was The Degree Of My Scare And Insecurity. 

A Handbag Of A Woman In The Women’s Compartment Of A Train Scared Me. 

UNBELIEVABLE? 

No. This Is The Kind Of Fright Women Of This Country Live In. Courtesy: The Great Rapist Clan Of India.

Why Are The Delhi Police Allowing These Rapists To Cover Their Faces? 
Unmask Them, 

They Cut Her With Blades; 
Used Iron Rods To Beat Her, 
Her Intestines Were Dislocated. 

Is This True? 
Are We Still Going To Swallow This Silently? 

IF THEY CAN’T BE HANDLED BY LAW THEN, 
ANIMAL LAWS MUST APPLY TO THESE RAPISTS. 

There Should Be FEAR IN THEIR MIND Before DOING IT.
WHY PRAY FOR THE GIRL? 

Why Should She SURVIVE? 

Do We Even Know How To Treat A Girl Who Has Faced What Only She Has. 
And, 
You Know What Is Funny? 

Some Movie Director Will Cash On The Tragedy. 
What A Shame. 
SHE IS COURAGEOUS TO WISH FOR LIFE AND URGING ‘SAVE ME, 
I WANT TO LIVE’. 
‘This’ Is The Strength Of A Woman. 

Only If Some PSEUDO-MEN Of This Country Would Have A REALISATION. 

What Was Her Fault? 
She Wasn’t Dressed Inappropriately, 
She Didn’t Invite Attention, 
She Was Not Drinking In A Pub; 
She Only Wanted To Get Home To Her Family. 
Is That A Crime?

I Wonder If There Is Actually A God, If Prayers Mean Anything At All. 
I Wonder Why We Worship ‘Shakti’. 

Faith And Hope Are Losing Their Meaning. 
Humanity Is Long Lost Too. 

Not Proud, But Ashamed To Be An Indian Today. 
My Brain Harps On Amitabh’s Dialogue From ‘Sarkar’..

SOCH KO MAARO. 
KILL THE THOUGHT. 
The Thought Of Rape Needs To Be Killed. 

I Think 
IT IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT THAT PARENTS AND TEACHERS AT SCHOOL CREATE A HEALTHY PLATFORM FOR SEX EDUCATION AND ADDRESS SEX-CURIOUS ISSUES OF CHILDREN. 

HERE ARE THE 3 REASONS WHY MEN RAPE:

1) ‘I CAN GET AWAY WITH IT’ ATTITUDE, 
The Weak Judicial System And Us, 
The Society Who Sits Pretty Not Making Noise When These Culprits Are Pardoned By The System. 
We Are As Powerful As Any Government In Power. 
We Are The People: 
The Voice Of The Country; 
They Are Because Of Us Not Us, Because Of Them.

2) THE WAY WE BRING UP A MALE CHILD IN OUR SOCIETY. 
Parents And Schools Are At Fault For Not Teaching Men How To Cook And Clean Just As Women, 
For Telling Them That There Is A Difference Between A Man And Woman And Their Duties And Responsibilities Are Different. 
When Your Father Does Not Treat Your Mother Right, 
Speak Up. 
When A Brother Does Not Treat His Sister Right, 
Speak Up. 
When A Boyfriend Does Not Treat His Girlfriend Right, 
Speak Up.

3) HUNGER FOR POWER OVER THE WEAKER: 
This Is Only Human Nature. 
Everyone From Akbar To The Alexander Loved Power, 
So Do These Rapists. 
If You Truly Wish To Experience Power, 
Excercise Power Over Your ‘Instincts’
Or 
Excercise Self-Control. 
Only WEAK Try And CONTROL OTHERS, 
The STRONG Exercises SELF-CONTROL

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A must read post specially for guys.

This is one of the disturbing issues I
have been struggling with,
throughout my life, as a feminist. I
have seen common people giving
bullshit opinions about women
regarding their social,economic,
political, philosophic, cultural and
ideological roles that are in most
cases developed upon a patriarchal
dais, supported by misogynist
argument.Even people boasting of
their so-called education very often
categorize women as either Mother or
Prostitute, to commensurate with
male need. As if there can not be
anything in the middle or outside
this known boundary.
India has always been the land of
Sita, Savitri and sati who were all
emblem of endless feminine virtue
which teaches us to sacrifice and
tolerate in the camouflage of chastity
and morality that consequently gives
rise to male ego, attitude and
dominance. But I guess, by a
complete turn of deeds and
dedication ( If I should not use the
hackneyed term FATE), now India
stands apart as a land of Sonia
Gandhi, Lakhsmi Kochar, Tessie
Thomas, and Sunita William (and the
list continues) who have proved
themselves in politics, astronomy,
business, science… Then my humble
question is that, does any individual,
in a post-colonial , post-PATRIARCHAL
(if hopefully I can say) and sovereign
country, preserve any bloody right to
put any shackles before women’s
way??? Any ideology that headlong or
ultimately leads up to sexual
discrimination and thereby putting a
blot on those unfortunate women who
have been victimized by the socially
approved insignia of virility, is
eventually a blatant disregard of our
Constitution that allegedly gave
women their equal right and power to
men. Therefore, indulging in the
slightest degree of misconception of
feminity as possession of Male hands
and tampering the definition of
women with regards to the ancient
women, pitifully entrapped by the
fabrics of social enigma amounts to a
FATAL SIN.And lastly, a modern state
should follow its law and order which
is the pinnacle of human rationality
instead of any epic fabrication which
is also in some sense ( or in entire
sense) the diplomacy of male
educators to promote patriarchy.
Kindly remember that, society is a
collective ideology made of individual
psychology of its people. So be
conscious before even you think as
thought could turn into action and
give birth to a crippled society that
considers its women as commodity…
source:bong confession

“””A pathologist must be fearless, emotionless during surgery””,

“””A pathologist must be fearless,
emotionless during surgery””, That
was what the chief medical officer
taught us in our classes. This was our
motto from the beginning. 14 years of
fearless experience, but still I shall
never forget Friday, the 21st June
2013.
10.45am, daka holo amay, ekti body
er autopsy er jonne(called me,for autospy abody).. Good, I am ready
for that. Normally reached with my team .
Already body block on a bed.there was a sweet little girl.. It
was decided that T method will be
used instead of Y incision, whatever I
found my hands trembling while
holding the shears to make the
incision. It has never happened
before in my 14 long years of career. I
somehow managed it and left the
external autopsy part to my assistants
and stepped back just watching. That
was probably the first time I felt so
bad in my life. I was feeling giddy
and more guilty.
I am shedding tears? 39year old hag
shedding tears while watching an
autopsy?
But didn’t let anybody know that the
small 11year old girl child is my
daughter who silently passed away on
last Monday, the 17th. I probably am
one of few Dads who dissected his
own blood with his own hands. I am
sorry diya for being such a miserable
dad. But I tried to be your mom and
dad at the same time. Khub valo
theko tumi.
No matter, how tough we pretend to
be, we are not heartless. We cry from
inside when we can’t save your
dearest ones, infact we love your
curses, because somehow they give
relief from the guilt. We love our
patients too- on behalf of all the
doctors.”

Source: m.facebook.com/bongconfessions?refid=12

“Fortunately, some are born with spiritual immune systems that sooner or later give rejection to the illusory worldview grafted upon them from birth through social conditioning. They begin sensing that something is amiss, and start looking for answers. Inner knowledge and anomalous outer experiences show them a side of reality others are oblivious to, and so begins their journey of awakening. Each step of the journey is made by following the heart instead of following the crowd and by choosing knowledge over the veils of ignorance.” ~Henri Bergson

In Japan they have square watermelons.

 

They get square watermelons by growing them inside of square glass cases. That way they can fit easily into an overcrowded refrigerator, and you can stack things on them.

 

Square watermelons are expensive though (10,000 yen or about $82). Compare that to regular round watermelons which cost about $15-20 in Japan.

 

The square boxes they’re grown in are the exact dimensions of Japanese refrigerators, which means they fit perfectly. At $82 each, these square watermelons probably wouldn’t be too popular in the United States. Our solution for a lack of refrigerator space? Smaller, seedless watermelons.Image

Women speak about 20,000 words a day while men only speak 7,000 .

The stereotype is pervasive: women are talkative, men are not. Women love to share their feelings and talk things to death, while men are stoic and don’t feel the need to chat as much. It turns out that the basic fact behind this stereotype are true: women do speak more than men.

A lot more. Women have been found to speak about 20,000 words per day while men only speak about 7,000 words. That’s quite the difference. It turns out that women speak faster as well—sometimes twice as fast.